Monday, November 23, 2009

Are MFM threesomes scary for men?

What am I doing wrong? Are MFM threesomes scary for guys?

So, as many of you know I've been talking for over a year now about having a threesome with my husband and another man. For those of you that don't know, we've been there many, many times with other women and have loved it. We discussed giving the MFM threesome a shot and decided to go for it about a year ago. I think I'd enjoy it and my husband says he loves to show me off and for him that would be the ultimate. Not to mention he is a very visually aroused man, as most are, and would get to see me in action from points of view that he's never seen me in before. I guess you could say is just one of the many things on our sexual bucket list!
Over this past year we've approached 3-4 of my husbands good friends with the idea and they seem to run like a little school girl who's just been offered a piece of candy from a stranger...lol. These are guys that have made comments, flirted, and shown interest before, but when it came right down to it they shy'd away.
Honestly, it makes me question if there is something wrong with me, is it our approach, or is it just the situation in general that freaks them out. I would love to be able to do photos and videos for my website with two guys but in that case they would have to sign model releases and everything, so I know the chances of that are probably even less than that of a threesome with a friend. For me, the first time I do it, I just think I would be more comfortable with someone I know and already have a comfort level with. I mean, I'm sure I'll be nervous either way and when things get going everything will fall into place, but I need to be comfortable the first time, right?
So, if you were approached by a close friend and asked to join him in fucking his wife or letting his wife give you a blowjob, what would you do? Do you have any advice for me guys, or girls?
Kisses,
Realiti

3 comments:

  1. I'm at a loss as to how any guy could turn down the possibility. Are they afraid they might have to touch your husband's dick?

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  2. Well I don't know if you read comments on older posts but I will make one anyway. I got invited to join a couple a few years back and I have to say I totally enjoyed it. It was the most awesome sex I have ever had. I even let him take some closeup photos of my cock in her pussy and her sucking on my cock. I can tell you that they both loved it too and said that they were so glad that they found me. Unfortunatly they moved away. :(

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  3. I've just found your blog and love it! Getting to the question at hand. I think these guys are simply not comfortable with themselves or anyone else when it comes to sexuality and are simply scared of what might happen. I've been sharing my wife with a good friend of mine for more than two years now and had a girl on the side who I shared with her husband twice. Nothing gay or kinky, we just both enjoyed the girl at the same time or watched as the other took his turn taking care of the lovely lady. It's all about comfort level. Find a guy that is comfortable and it'll happen. Come to Georgia, and I'll help you make it happen. you're a gorgeous woman and none of it is your fault in any way.

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